❓Why should you ask WHY?
In a world full of information, advice, and opinions, it's easy to get overwhelmed. We’re often in a rush to find the right answer, but we rarely pause to ask the most powerful question of all: WHY?
Asking why helps us dig deeper. It gives context to our decisions. It brings clarity when everything feels confusing. And most importantly, it often leads us to better, more intentional choices.
Let’s look at a real-life example that almost every parent of a toddler faces:
Which school should we send them to?
This question triggers a flood of research — ratings, curriculums, locations, peer reviews. But before diving into those, what if we started with a few why questions?
1. WHY is the right school important? Because education shapes our children’s early years. It helps them build confidence, social skills, and a love for learning. The right school nurtures curiosity, creativity, and emotional well-being — not just academic excellence.
2. WHY do they need to go to school at this age? Is it for learning? For structure? For social interaction? Or because it’s the expected next step? Understanding why we’re sending our children to school helps us choose a place that aligns with our family values and our child’s personality.
3. WHY this school over another? Is it because it’s nearby? Has better infrastructure? More extracurriculars? Lower fees? A more progressive approach? Every parent’s priority is different. Asking why helps us rank what truly matters to us — not just follow trends.
By simply asking “WHY” at each stage, we move away from autopilot decisions and toward conscious choices. Whether it’s about schools, careers, relationships, or everyday habits — asking why is the first step toward meaningful answers.
So the next time you’re stuck or uncertain, don’t start by looking for answers. Start by asking WHY.
Dr Tashi (with stethoscope) and Tara in School
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