📖 Why should you read books?

16 Apr, 2025

Because books help you understand concepts — not just gather information.

Let’s say you want to become a better parent. Naturally, you pick up a book (or several!) on parenting.

Why?

Because you want to raise your children better, learn from others’ experiences, and avoid repeating common mistakes.

But here’s the catch:

You can read an entire book and still not become a better parent.

Why?

Because if you haven’t understood the concepts behind the advice, the solutions won’t stick.

You can’t apply what you don’t truly understand. And you can’t solve a problem you haven’t clearly defined.

Let’s take a real example:

What do you do if your child doesn’t listen and throws a tantrum?

A common solution you’ll come across is:

“Instead of raising your voice, lower your tone — even whisper.”

Sounds simple.

But unless you understand why this works, you’re unlikely to remember or apply it in the heat of the moment.

Here’s the concept behind it:

Children mirror our energy. When we raise our voice, they feel challenged or threatened. But when we speak softly — even in a whisper — it disrupts their emotional pattern and draws their attention. It de-escalates instead of adding fuel to the fire.

See the difference?

You didn’t just read a tip. You understood the principle behind it. And that’s what books are really for.

So next time you read — whether it’s about parenting, relationships, work, or personal growth — don’t rush through. Pause. Reflect. Ask yourself: What’s the real concept here? What problem is this solving? And does it apply to me?

Because reading to understand is what turns knowledge into wisdom.

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